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A Love — ly Thought #2

Just a thought to ponder from a relationship columnist

Colleen Sheehy Orme

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“Love requires we sacrifice some of ourselves, don’t ever mistake that for all of yourself.”

—Colleen Sheehy Orme

I always say relationships are a relay.

The first two syllables of the word echo this — ‘relay-tionship.’ A partnership should be a subtle back-and-forth. We give and we receive. We shouldn’t perpetually hand off to another individual.

I use the word subtle because relationships shouldn’t be measured.

We give out of love, not to immediately receive. But the scales shouldn’t outweigh one another either. This can happen when a giver falls in love with a taker or an individual lacks self-protective boundaries and/or can’t say no.

Just a thought. Think about it. Marinate in it. Love better.

Welcome to ‘A Love — ly Thought.’

What’s this all about?

I will be routinely publishing a few love — ly thoughts in a numeric series.

This will be an emotional assortment of love.

They might be something to ponder. They might be something that helps uncomplicate the complex…

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