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Relationship Advice
Be Careful of People Who Say These 3 Words
Relationships can be harder with difficult personalities
I’m a worrier. I’ve never really liked that about myself. It feels like a weakness.
An ugly word stronger people somehow avoid.
When I met my husband I was instantly intrigued by three words he often spoke.
My husband was ‘the non-worrier.’
The antithesis of the very thing I disliked about myself. To say it was attractive would be an understatement.
I marveled at his ability to simply not care. It sounded like pure bliss. An emotional euphoria I could only dream of experiencing.
I would never be anything like this.
So the next best thing would be to latch onto this detached Goliath.
And each time he spoke, I was more certain of it.
“I don’t care,” he would say.