Have you read the other pieces I wrote? “I Was a Stay-at-Home Mom,” “A Stay-at-Home Mom’s Salary is $178,201 — but my husband thinks I was doing him a favor,” “13 Ways to Financially Protect Stay-at-Home Mom’s,” “Why Divorce Is So Hard for Stay-at-Home Mom’s,” and “Do Stay-at-Home Mom’s Survive Financially?” If you haven’t I would check them out. Like you, I ended up sacrificing my career and making myself vulnerable in divorce. The system needs to change.