Hi Chris, I do sometimes put that in because as you know I write from my perspective but obviously bad behavior is not gender exclusive. I will take a moment and add that. This wasn't about men in general. I know a lot of great men. Most of the men I know are unbelievably good men. But just like some women take advantage of men while dating by other mean, this was meant to address those men who do the same. But you read enough of my writing to know I'm not man-bashing. I'm just relaying my story and a few friends who are similar and it's because we didn't necessarily have the best judgment choosing someone.