Hi Georgina, What is incredible and frustrating is my kids started acting out in divorce and I was worried for them because they were teenagers and my ex husband said don't let your mother speak to you that way one day when I told my son I was disappointed in him for his choices. My ex undermined my parenting and all hell broke loose my kids were doing whatever they wanted so I began raising my voice. I can't believe that now he's letting a woman yell at our kids. I never had to raise my voice with my kids before he undermined their respect for me. My son is old enough now to deal with this situation and smart enough to see the irony and contradiction of what his dad did when as a mom I was upset.