Hi Liv, I agree with you. First, you're right we are initially attracted to people physically or they become more attractive to us. This happened to me recently. I wasn't initially attracted to a guy but a month later I couldn't believe I ever felt that way since I was so attracted to him. I guess I should have clarified more in this piece that initial attraction is typically physical. I was talking later after you are with someone to ask what is deeper than that attraction. I do love your question about what is love to you. I've written about it in a slightly different way. But you make me realize I should write about it again since it's been a few years. I think we should ask one another, "Do I make you feel loved?" And from that response determine why or why not we aren't making the person we love necessarily feel loved the way they need to feel loved. Thanks! I loved your comment.