Hi Noel, I thought this was an excellent read. So much so that I wrote a piece and included a link to your Medium profile as well as your article. As a journalist, I've spent more than a decade in the counseling, and research of love, and relationships. This was accurately insightful. Nice to meet you via Medium. Colleen -- Oops forgot to include the link to it that mentions you https://medium.com/hello-love/my-friend-was-trying-to-figure-out-if-a-guy-was-using-her-f6b6cf6991fb