Hi Peter, I remember sitting with my marriage counselor who is a psychologist one day and he said, "Colleen a great injustice has been done to you." He meant everything I had experienced since he had been our marriage counselor and witnessed 5 years of aggressive bullying by my husband during our divorce. Unfortunately, my husband and a bunch of men in his industry devised and shared a pretty diabolic divorce strategy to leave their wives with nothing. A part of that strategy was ruining our credit and so I did not have access to a lot of money for legal fees. The system needs to change because it rewards men and women who behave badly in divorce.