Hi There, I totally appreciate what you're saying but my situation is slightly different. I don't dwell on these things in my day to day. I'm a freelance journalist and ten years ago I became a relationship and divorce columnist. I write to help other people who are experiencing things now. I write in an active voice because it's more compelling to the reader. But this is my expertise and I write on multiple outlets and am a source in national outlets. I may not continue to write about it but for now it is how I help people and earn my living. I am expanding to do some videos that will be relationship advice and the only divorce advice will likely be helping protect stay-at-home mothers from financial abuse.