Hi There, I wrote an article once about the jeweler who I had to hock my wedding rings to in order to buy groceries for my kids. He told me, "Any man who would put you in this position is a man you are better off without." You should do the GoFundMe and pray. I spend a lot of time praying. I'm guessing you can't take him back to court. My ex-husband left me no money to make sure I couldn't take him to court. It was a part of his strategy.