Hi Thomas, I'm so sorry you continue to go through this. I'm happy to be divorced but this type of personality never really leaves you alone because you have children together. They need to implement something to deal with people like this and there should be consequences for people with these behaviors and who drag out divorce because it's obvious what they are doing. And no child should have to go through an elongated abusive divorce. The reason I had a bad outcome is money. The legal process rewards the person who is in control of the money sometimes and it gives them the ability to outfight you and wear you down.