Hi Tom, You make a good point and I think I will go in and edit this piece. I'm not talking about guys like you because lots of people including myself plan to go on multiple dates and see multiple people. My friend that I reference here is doing that. That's the world of dating apps. But there's a difference between someone who is ENM because they aren't ultimately looking for anything but sex. They have that right everyone should do their own thing to each their own. I'm just saying I don't want to meet someone who only wants sex and is already committed to a long-term partner and that they should list ENM on their profile so women and men know from the beginning. Either that or get on some of the apps that are more known for strictly hookups and not people who are willing to go out and have fun and meet different people but who ultimately hope they might have a chance to meet someone special.