Hi Yaffaleh, Yes, thankfully my life is better now. I'm sorry I am just now responding. I agree with you. Those of us who have left a narcissist do have an unspoken bond. We can be there for one another when the rest of the world doesn't believe the narcissist is who they are. I'm so grateful I left him and the divorce and rebuilding have been long but I was so unhappy with him.