How Do You Get a Narcissist to Care?

It’s easier than you think

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Yet we forget narcissism is a form of addiction. And instead of alcohol or drugs, the narcissist is self-addicted.

So this bears repeating — the narcissist is addicted to themselves. And everything that entails — their world, and their money, and their possessions, and their job.

We can lessen our anguish by speaking their language — ‘I and me.’

So I speak the narcissist's language.

The narcissist is already being forced to part with one of his most coveted belongings — money. He does not want to sacrifice any more of what he ‘cares’ about.

My words coat him like narcissistic repellent.

But I refused to believe my narcissist didn’t care.

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National Relationship Columnist, Freelance Journalist & Former Business Columnist. All Shapes of Love — #WomanResurrected

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