Narcissist

If You Love a Narcissist You Will Definitely Lose Yourself

The devastating reality of attaching yourself to narcissism

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We focus on the narcissist. And honestly, who could blame us? They rob us blind.

They steal our innate goodness, innocence, and love. Our entire identity lost in a squirmish of emotional survival.

One we never saw coming.

It’s easy to want to direct our attention towards this wicked relationship python. One who spies the harmless deer with keen intentions. They slither into our hearts and suffocate us in order to render us powerless.

But to regain our strength, we must acknowledge the most devastating truth. We didn’t lose our lives in the struggle, we lost ourselves.

And while the narcissist might be an ugly reminder, we allowed it to happen.

Therefore, it’s somehow therapeutic if not survival, to concentrate on the thief. Rather than the once beautiful soul who innocently surrendered. Who…