It is so comforting to know we are not alone. I am so glad I left though I wish I had made a solid plan and had money put aside and minimized the way he could control me since I had been a stay-at-home mom. You should read something I wrote here called “What I Call the 5 C’s of Narcissism” and “Narcissist, I Forgot to Tell You Something.” Good luck! It took me a long time to find the strength because I had allowed him to wear me down.