Oh boy, 5 minutes of law school? I built a business with my husband since we were first married and he was diagnosed with a severe disorder. I was following some of your earlier logic until the law school comment. Women make a big mistake walking away from our incomes. I didn't think that I completely had since I built the business with him and walked away from my own career to do so. Bottom line is both men and women can behave badly in a marriage and/or divorce. Bad behavior isn't gender exclusive so each case must be looked at individually to discover the truth.