Oh my goodness, that’s exactly what happened to me. My husband escalated and was unmerciful once I retained an attorney. Heartless to the core and I knew what my marriage counselor meant about him being a narcissist finally and completely. Read some more of my articles especially the financial ones like, “How Divorce Stole My Innocence” and “My Husband Was Hiding Money” and “13 Ways for Stay-at-Home Moms to Financially Protect Themselves.” Because I was really naive and trusting and paid a large price for it. Definitely scroll down and read the financial ones.