What a Narcissist Fears Most

And they will do anything to make sure it never happens

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In fact, they will make it appear as if you were not the ‘catch of the day’ at all.

That somehow it was you who landed this narcissistic big fish.

Aren’t you the lucky one!

Narcissists are surface feeders. They never go deep. They just work the pond.

They smile and laugh. They appear to be interested in what others are saying and doing but they are not. Nor will they ever be interested in what you are saying and doing. Unless it involves them.

But with time, it becomes clear who was doing the catching. You remember it was you who was on that hook.

And what happens to those who are fished out of a pond? The ones who aren’t lucky enough to get thrown back in.

They either become dinner or captive in someone’s aquarium.

Despite the individual narcissist’s methods, one thing is for sure. They will deplete you in order to strengthen themselves. The weaker you become the more important and in control they feel. As if they are responsible for all that you have.

Interestingly, the narcissist doesn’t just fear to lose you because you make their world go round. They fear to lose you because you also make their world look good.

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National Relationship Columnist, Freelance Journalist & Former Business Columnist. All Shapes of Love — #WomanResurrected

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